A Man’s Guide to Getting Through Valentine’s Day
We all know Aristotle’s Quote ‘Anything worth doing, is worth doing well” and this applies to everything including Valentines Day. Hey.. It isn’t our favourite holiday but anything to make her happy right?
If you follow these tips to the last LETTER or get creative with it, You’ll both have a great Valentine’s Day.
Plan everything beforehandNothing says you care more to a woman than planning ahead and taking time to create an unforgettable experience. Don’t be that guy rushing to buy left over cakes on Valentine’s day. Plan beforehand and know peace of mind!
Valentine’s day for women is all about romance. Don’t be caught slipping as all the little things matter on that day from leaving notes, sending gifts, holding doors and chairs, being on time of your commitments. Go over and Beyond!
Be the Chef
If you can cook..Dude please save yourself from the cliche restaurant-hopping and whip up a nice meal for two. Remember to do all prep beforehand in good time before your hot date arrives. Start her off with an easy appetizer and wine while she watches you make the mains. You can never go wrong with store-bought desserts and ice cream.
Get Creative, Create an ambiance
Imagine the smell of scented candles, soft jazz playing, tea light candles scattered throughout the room. Make the night truly special by creating a romantic ambiance right in your Man-Cave. Following number 15, get dessert and wine for the legendary ‘Netflix and chill’ moment after dinner and of course, get it on. Someone once said It hits different on Valentine’s Day.
Send a gift to work
Women love their peers to know that they’re loved and appreciated. If she works a '9-5’, Sending a Valentine Gift to work is a dope idea. Think Roses and Dessert. Save the raunchy gifts and notes for later.
Write her a love note
Women, Scratch that everyone loves to be appreciated. You can do better than generic cards - take 10 minutes and in your handwriting, tell her what she really means to you and why you’d always choose her. Best believe she will keep this notes for your grandkids.
'Thoughtful and Intentional’ should be at the back of your mind while you’re shopping for gifts for her. Don’t go overboard buying expensive and meaningless gifts. Think deeply and buy her gifts she will hold dear to her heart.
Out of town? Plan ahead
If you happen to be out of town for a work trip or whatever reason around Valentine’s Day. Make sure to plan earlier for at least Roses to be delivered to her. Call her first thing in the morning and send multiple messages during the day. The dinner, gift exchange and unspeakable things can happen when you’re back in town.
Don’t do the same thing you did last year
Dude, you always have to keep spicing it up. Fair enough you nailed it last year, she will definitely appreciate a new and different experience. She wants to know that you you’ve put some thought into it.
If you can, Get out of town
Women love the idea of being whisked away on a romantic and relaxing trip to a destination of her dreams. Of-course, only if you can afford this.
Send Her Roses
Yeah I know - Roses can be tacky but not today man. Even if they die 3 days later, buy them still. Every woman at the bottom of their hearts wants roses sent to them on Valentine’s day. Red roses are a cliché; consider orange or those whitish green roses instead
Don't spend the night online
Valentine’s night isn’t night for scrolling aimlessly through instagram, twitter or checking your notifications every second. Dude put that laptop and phone down and focus on your woman. She will be grateful for your undivided attention.
The truth to long-lasting love, is the Intention. That complete focus and commitment to your partner. So as you pay attention to these steps check yourself too. Find the One you love and love her don’t go breaking girls’ hearts. Be a KING.